At Openta Mentis, I decode the worlds of Swinging, Kink, and Ethical Non-Monogamy, translating them into clear, accessible language for those who are ready to explore without shame or confusion.
Clarify the differences between ethical non-monogamy and cheating – intentional, transparent, consensual relationships.
Decode BDSM’s 3 lifestyles, safewords, SSC vs RACK consent models, and risk-aware negotiation.
Translate kink/fetish curiosities into healthy, safe, and personally meaningful experiences.
Understand swinging: consent, soft versus full swap, and couple-based sexual exploration.
Explore polyamory, open relationships, relationship anarchy, and solo-poly.
Navigate unexpected emotional terrain – jealousy, compersion, boundaries – and build emotional resilience.
"Thank you for showing me a whole new way to connect emotionally and sexually! My mind is going 1000 miles an hour. What - a - turn - on. I can't wait to start loving and playing this way!"
- Raul in Milan
"I always knew monogamy wasn't for me, but I judged myself hard. Working with Makael helped me put my desires into words and start loving myself as I am. I'm grateful I found her."
- Theresa in Dallas
"My husband and I are empty-nesters looking to reconnect. We'd always been playful, so why not explore our options? Thanks, Makael! We're taking slow steps with you guiding us."
- Estana in Arizona
"Makael taught me how to be direct about what matters to me without coming across as rude.
I want to explore it all, and I'm learning how to do it without making a social mess!"
- Brandon in Colorado
Believing that all consensual choices are valid, I provide a safe space for you to:
Ask your questions in a judgement-free space
Discover what you didn't know existed
Share your inner-most curiosities, hungers, and concerns
Face with compassion the feelings that arise when your long-held beliefs are questioned
Explore the possibilities that excite you!
Ask your questions in a judgement-free space
Discover what you didn't know existed
Share your inner-most curiosities, hungers, and concerns
Face with compassion the feelings that arise when your long-held beliefs are questioned
Explore the possibilities that excite you!
At Openta Mentis Academy, we believe that sexual freedom is a human right.
Join us and start your journey toward a more confident, joyful, and fulfilled life.